any question that is too personal and could lead to identification of a poster should not be asked and if it is asked and makes it way into the thread it should not be answered and if it is answered, both the question and answer should be deleted.
civil debate should be encouraged with the operative term being civil!
all advice whether halachic, haskafa, medical, dietary, legal… should not be taken as absolute – people need to consult their LOR, DR., Lawyer…