sjs,
“so I accept her for who she is & what she is doing”.
Those were your exact words the first time. Those were the words that stuck in my head being that you have written similar things in the past.
Now you say that you don’t accept what she is doing. I’m not chas v’shalom accusing you of being a politician (no greater insult than that!) & I truly believe you when you have now explained your true feelings. I just want you to understand why I’ve been so foreceful about it. Now that you have CLEARLY explained yourself, apparently we are on the same page.
Tinok shenishba has MASSIVE PRACTICAL RAMIFICATIONS in myriad ways, such as Lashon hara (which started the whole discussion), yayin nesech & many, many other areas.