The Big One: I deserve a petch for peddling it? Ask R’ Felder in Lakewood if birth control can be allowed. Ask R’ Shachar, who gives chosson classes to hundreds if not thousands of boys. See what they say.
My brother learned all the halachos from R’ Shachar when he was a chosson, and he told me that he was told birth control can be allowed, you just have to ask your Rav!
Instead of attacking me when you don’t know anything, why not ask a Rav and find out?
As for birth control bordering on murder, that’s just plain nonsense. Again, ask your Rav, and see what he says. Writing the way you do makes you look ignorant.