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Just because it went fast by me, I understand and dont expect it to be it like this for e/o, I am not preaching that this is the way to do it, and I dont think 3-4 weeks is too long. However, I can’t imagine why pple would need to go on more than 10 dates or meet someone over a span of a year. You are not meant to become best friends the guy u r dating. Dont forget that the guy u r dating is halachicly a “srange” man and Halachos of Yichud apply as do other halachos. Dont fool yourself into it, ask yourself are all of my dates chaneled to marriage, am I dating for fun or am I just not in the mood of commiting myself etc… The more seriously u take the dating the shorter the process should take u…