but SJS, b”h you sound happy and thats what counts now but like we said it doesnt work like that for all.
There is no one formula that works for all and makes everyone happy. I am just sharing my experience and hopefully people will realize that they have to decide on that path. Dating for 2 weeks or dating for years – do what is right for YOU, not the shadchan, your parents, your neighbors, your Rabbi…you have to live in the marriage and they do not.