Why is it accepted that frum guys smoke but totally out of the question for girls? What’s the difference?
Who says it is? I would NEVER allow a shidduch with one of my daughters with a guy who smoked (even a little bit). They would never want a guy who smokes. It is a filthy, smelly, expensive, and health-threatening addiction. which imperils the people who live with a smoker almost as much as it imperils the smoker. That being said, many people view women smoking as being untzniusdig. Man or woman, I am against anyone smoking, at least anywhere near my loved ones or me. By the way, for any woman who does smoke – it ages and wrinkles your skin prematurely, because of the motion you make while taking a repeated puffs, as well as the toxins ingested in the smoke.