Reply To: At Risk Teenager

My parents are very frum and thus when I am home I keep everything they way they want. When I leave I change into untznius clothes. Which as of this week i dont anymore. So back to the point I dress tzniusly, no makeup, no jewlery, tight clothes. Because of my past I dont want to attract attention. I have been told by many people that for some reason i attract all the wrong people. I find all the emssed up people and draw them towards me. I have to think every man is a potential abuser unless they can prove otherwise, since I do not want to risk being hurt again. There are way to many absuers out there. Of course there are moor good people, but like I said I am a magnet for the distressed and disturbed.

Thanks for your offer to find someone for me. Your caring and non-judgmental attitude really makes me feel better and that I can pull through.

Ames- Thanks for the kind words, amde me smile. I have never spoken to rabbi Wallerstein about any of my issues. I have met him on Shabbatons and things but hes dealing with so many kids, he jsut opened a new at-risk school plus he has Ohr Nava. Like I said before I am evry close with an amazing rav who runs an at-risk orginization. I dont want to say his name since I dont want to risk revealing myself but he has been a lifesaver.