The argument in this thread is refered to in the language of logic as a fallacy.
I agree – and think that its on your end. If I am “too far to the left for you,” realize, even squeak (who I usually end up disagreeing with) said that advice is NOT binding.
Don’t take my word for it – discuss it with YOUR rav. I cannot imagine that a (non-chasidish) Rav would tell you to follow his advice blindly. There is a reason he is offering advice and not a psak.
Also realize, that while your Rav may give you the right piece of advice at the time, by the time you implement it it may be wrong. Does that mean your Rav is wrong? No, but it might have meant you should have re-evaluated to make sure the advice fit, rather than just follow it blindly.
I wish you much hatzlacha in your life journey.