intellegent, believe it or not there are pple that do’t take dating as serious as u might have. Someone suggest a boy/ girl and they try it out. They can end up on a date with a quako. Probably in ur circles the candidate is checked out prior and therefore the chances of marrying the first one is likely.
brooklyn19, I dont think many guys want to marry the first girls they meet. You may have an attractive personality…dont take it for granted.