Reply To: Shidduch Priorities

gavra,,,

The point is to feel that your spouse is A LOT MORE AMAZING now after years of marriage than she/he was whe you were dating. If you dont feel that, than its just as sad .

As far as the ‘surprises’ are concerned, they are certainly not evident while dating.

These are normally faults which you accept because at this point, your happy all around. But it IS possible that had these faults been obvious at the beginning, one might have terminated the relationship, so SQUEAK makes agood point!