BS”D
Please.
The only characteristics that are important are:
1) Height over 5’4′
2) Size no more than 2 so that weight is no more than 110 (that is pounds).
3) Shabbos tablecloth is white
4) Father of kallah wears same style and same brim size hat as chosson; it is even better if they have the same head size (what is in the head is of no consequence so long as the hat matches on both sides).
5) Father has a Lexus; doesn’t matter if he is in the red every month on lease payments and definitely does not matter if he is involved in stuff that could land him a 10 year shteler as the rosh koilel at Otisville.
6) TV only in closet
7) Internet filter but not at the office.
8) Went to the right sem and therefore can cook a chicken properly and make kugel in the same (Litvish, Poylish, Oberland, Ingarish etc) style that the chosson’s mother cooks in.
9) Mother wears same head covering that chosson’s mother does (again remember only the covering counts).
10) If you need any more criteria like this, I feel sorry for your daughter-in-law!