KolMevaser
Don’t kid yourself. You think people care about beauty in a marriage cuz it’s a better way to do the mitzva?!?! I find that VERY hard to believe. I never heard the shiur you’re talking about, but I can imagine that sentence was taken out of contex. Or maybe he was trying to tell people how to elevate the mundane. If not, I think that comment need major clarification.
Or was that some random comment that had nothing to do with shidduchim???