moish- certain taavos are way stronger for men (per the Torah)….
and- women are not michuyuv in mitzvos sh’hazman grumma. Also, many “let loose” things are acceptable for a girls to do, but not for a boy (considered bitul torah)
and- sitting and learning all day vs. in school 9-4:30 (half of it being english- a joke) and free time after that….
ok- so all the girls in the CR will respond as follows:
there are like tons and tons of stuff y’know that boys get away with but like are totally not tzniyusdig for a girl and like we have so many responsibilities in the home and so much is expected of us…. and we need to hold down a job, raise children, run the home…
This is all very true and I’m not making light of it. Like I said- it aint easy being ‘good'(for either gender). Just a little harder to be considered “a top boy” than being considered a “top girl”.