B”H I’ve been busy. I’ve been Modding daily, just without posting though.
What I meant by spin the logic in reverse was that for all those, like the OP, who say:
and trust me, if you get to date #5, and the boy is interested, he will probably quit
You can spin it in reverse (which I stated above). I was trying to get people to realize: Don’t Even Start Dating Someone Who Smokes!!