Perhaps it is the responsibility of the Rabbis and Rebbetzins who mentor in the Yeshiva and Seminaries to talk tachlis to all the mature candidates in the Shidduch Parsha. The Parents on both sides also need to present Marriage in a very realistic way. What I mean is for them to give suggestions how to treat their potential life partner. Practical things (also need to be addressed) like surviving in the Material World i.e. covering rent, monthly expenses… Maybe the number of troubled Marriages would decrease if Significant people were involved in a relaxed manner.
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