Teen, An Open Book, I think you’ll do well. Just one thing you should know: true, we accept our own imperfections so may feel hypocritical being turned off by another’s. BUT if as you go out, something you’ve noticed continues to bother you take that as a sign that it will always bother you. And if there is anything more serious than that, something that shows seriously flawed middos or dangerous tendencies (controlling, abuse, e.g.) RUN. You can always talk to a shadchan in a way that leaves the door open in the former case, “Maybe we can revisit in a year or so if we’re both available,” but you’re always better off by erring on the side of caution.
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