Joseph, in my experience it is not. My children are friendly with young women with whom they have worked in B”Y type environments. Several of these girls became engaged after a very short time (a few short weeks), got married soon after, and divorced within a year’s time. I don’t believe this is an anomaly. It is a possibly preventable tragedy. Getting to know someone better is always a good idea. I said it before and I will say it one mroe time – a shidduch that is good after 8 dates will be as good or better after 20.
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