Phyllis, I would be interested in hearing more from Dr. Yael. Because we non-Chassidishe are not limiting ourselves as much as Chassidim, background-wise, and for better or worse, don’t do the same type of research. The more open to various backgrounds, etc. one is re shidduchim (providing basic bottom-line of issues of middos, responsibility,frumkeit, etc. are met) the longer it might be helpful to date.
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