I agree with oomis. Any man can choose not to date a woman who is obese or whom he considers unattractive in other ways; whether or not someone else will choose to marry her need not concern him. Similarly, a woman can choose not to marry a man with controlling parents, if she feels he won’t stand up for his spouse. It isn’t her responsibility to worry about whether someone else will marry him. As has been pointed out in other threads, choosing a spouse shouldn’t be a chessed project.
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