“…proper respect for a Beis Medrash? I’ve heard MANY stories about them that don’t show that we are treating them properly.”
this is very true
it is a very sad situation
“In fact, from what I’ve heard about the Stern Beis Medrash shows a lot more respect than most men seem to.”
im not surprised. Jewish women today are generally quite a bit more mature than men, and generally have a deeper spiritual connection to the Torah, more natural fear and respect.