“I’ve heard of girls spending the bulk of their dates talking about the Shiurim they go to and how they love their Rebbetzins. These are just examples of my theory below. I have many others.
I think some people are behaving aand thinking in a way that prevents them from getting married, because deep down they really don’t want to get married. “
I don’t know that I agree with that last statement. I do agree that girls who have nothing more to talk about on a date, other than about their rebbetzins and shiurim that they attend, are probably very boring dates. However, I do not believe that this is what they do because deep down they don’t want to get married. I think they simply have not learned how to cultivate the art of having a normal conversation with a boy. I will not get into the reasons why I think this is the case, and open yet another can of worms, but it is very clear that many girls AND guys simply have no clue as to how to behave on a date and have a normal discussion with someone of another gender.