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Thanks, Nobody.
Now here’s a word of advice for kids in the “parsha.” If you are dating exclusively through shadchanim, then it behooves you to contact the shadchan within 24 hours of the date to say thank you, I would like to see him/her again, or thank you, but I don’t see this going anywhere for tachlis, though I appreciate your efforts on my behalf.
Many guys are not calling the shadchan back for a much too substantial amount of time, and that leaves the girl in limbo (girls may also be guilty of doing this, but it seems to be more of a male issue, from what I have recently observed). Both parties should have the courtesy to let the shadchan know if there is any potential in this shidduch, or if they are ready to go on to the next shidduch. It is simply good manners to do so.