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Not sure where to start.
proud tatty:
“Where do you AZ get the chutpa to use her as your proof of your stats?”.
Please read most recent post from AZOI.IS (who was the one that started this thread).
As for the statistics of far more girls dating than guys, if the MODS allows I’ll re-write the info deduced by the Avi Chai Foundation. Simply put it a result of two obvious factors.
1. Population Growth
2. Age gap
As long as there are far more 19 year old girls than 22 yr old boys (population growth) and that is the typical starting age of dating respectively (age gap) we have a massive problem.
tzippi: Has anyone suggested putting girls in frezzer?? I certainly haven’t; simply because they won’t listen. HOWEVER, if significantly more shidduchim are redd to 21-23 yr olds and fewer to 18-20 than we make a huge dent in the crisis. Is there something u disagree with?
Not correct. Simply put. Who do the “not good” guys marry. And yes by and large they are getting married. However the inequity of numbers does give all boys unfair leverage in the shidduch parsha that can only be rectivied by evening out the numbers.
squeak: I’d be more than happy if only the mods allowed it. I just want one dedicated thread on the topic.