“By only setting up a guy and girl, if they are close in age”
Does anyone really think we will ever reach a point that ONLLY close in age shidduchim will go out?
What is urgently needed is far far more close in age shidduchim than in the past. A good place to start is to not go run to redd all the lkwd guys coming out of the freezer (almost 23 yr olds) to the sem girls coming home in a week (19 yr olds).