what is wrong with you people? If men would date those who are closer to their age, and not just the fresh on the market girls, there would be more possibilities to match up! listen. we have 5 boys and 5 girls. 5=oldest, 1 youngest. If the oldest boy 5 took a 2 or 3 girl then who will the 5 girl marry? and the 4 boy might take the 1 or 2 girl. who will the 4 girl marry?
why is it acceptable for men to marry late and not the women? I am tired of hearing “she is an older girl…just accept anyone…she’s 23” why do girls out of high school or seminary 18/19 start on the scene? what makes them appropriate to get married? There are many cases of women that got married young and realized that they missed out on growing up and are not mature enough to take care of babies and to raise a family. many of these women are getting divorced. why is the divorce rate of frum couples so high? yes, they are creeping higher and higher- how many people can you think of in 1 minute who are getting divorced? people are not mature enough to get married!