PM: boys not being mature enough is only half of the issue. The women have to be mature as well, not crying home to mommy every time something happens. both sides need maturity and sometimes only age (and maybe holding a job/schooling) can help. solving some of the shidduch crises doesnt have to come from boys marrying earlier. it could happen that women wait another year or two and then marry the boys (at the age that they would have earlier). generally, girls who marry straight out of high school/seminary do not have enough maturity and knowledge to raise a family.
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