“I DID quote it. See my reference to the Ran above.”
I looked at your quote…
“Can you please say where this is a “right” and not a privilege?
In various places. One of them if my memory is correct is a Ran I think in Mesechtes Nedarim.”
Um, that is not as explicit as you imply. “if my memory is correct”. well, you dont seem so sure about it. where in nedarim, maybe quote it for the rest of us? I have a pet peeve- its called citations. maybe its just leftover from high school/college….