Ames, Oomis has stated that she did repeatedly ask her Rav. Is it so hard for people understand that are multiple piskei halacha out there? People have trouble respecting other piskei halacha, especially if they are more lenient than what they follow.
Discussion is one thing – attempting to ridicule Oomis (ala I think it is clear that oomis will not allow herself to be convinced that she is mistaken, but it is still worthwhile for you to make it clear to everyone else that what she is saying goes keigen halacha) is another. Its one thing to say “I disagree with the psak” or discuss why they think its wrong.