Intellegent, I am glad you do not want to antagonize others, nor do I. I reread your post, perhaps you did not mean to tell people what they can wear, but you did. Read it again for yourself. You can tell people what you wear, what you think is tzniusdig, that’s your opinion and that’s fine. I am also glad that you realize that there are people out there who may think that you are not dressing tzniusdig enough. So let’s lay off being the final deciders and let people make their own decisions and respect those decisions. Give the same respect to others that you want for yourself.
To The Big One,
I am gratified to finally have met The One who decides what “Torah norms” are . Your gaivah borders on avodah zarah, you seem to be worshipping yourself and what you do. It’s secondary that you managed to psychoanalyze others ( a medical or psychology degree perhaps?)so succinctly but couldn’t bother to relate to the issue that is under discussion.