And if my wife shaves her hair (which she doesn’t) is anyone here going to start having their wife shave? It is irrelevant. Ask YOUR LOR, and I’ll ask mine. No one is paskening here, just discussing halacha. (Which is why I repeatedly refer you to YOUR LOR.)
Obviously different poskim treat this halachic issue with their own perspective. Neither you nor I are qualified to issue a psak din on your personal life situation.