Reply To: Sara Richard Remarks About Changes In Shidduchim

re: But too many women (and men) are marching to the chuppah woefully unprepared for life after sheva brachos.

Being that financial problems are a major cause of newlyweds’ disagreement, the girls who choose the Kollel lifestyle and grew up with the same, are able to adapt to married life much easier than those who grew up differently and choose the Kollel lifestyle, because of the urging of their Seminaries.

If you don’t grow up with it, sooner or later, the different lifestyle will be too hard to endure. Some make peace with it, some don’t.