If someone is dating two or more people at the same time, more than a few times each, there is something wrong witht he picture. But I really do not feel there is anything innately wrong in going out on Sunday with one guy and another on Wednesday. By Friday, the girl should know if she wants to go out again with either or neither of them. Once a few dates have occurred, there should not be that type of concurrent dating anymore. I guess this does not work in the rpesent Yeshivish system, but it worked pretty well in the 1970s and 80s, and no one was the worse for it. And we did not have any shidduch crisis then, either.
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