young: If you don’t mind, looking in to him & finding out nice things about him,
giving a yes to the Shadchan & then maybe receiving a no from the boys side.
Then go ahead! There’s nothing wrong with it. Just girls don’t want to
spend time finding out info, getting excited, & then being let down.
That’s why the boy usually looks into the girl first,
if he’s interested gives an answer so the ball’s
in the girl’s court & she gets to decide if she’s interested too,
w/o a chance of being turned down.