working: that guy is obviously a bum
For once we kind of agree 😉
Anyone who is sufficiently involved in dating the same person enough times to feel that things are going in a serious direction, has every right to expect that at that point a guy is not going out with anyone else. If either one is, it’s wrong. And I do not necessarily believe that there is anything wrong with being redd two shidduchim at the same time. I only believe that once it appears to be headed in a serious way, it would be wrong to lead another person on. It is put your money where your mouth is, time.