Oomis, first of all, I heard that by Lubavich the parents also fast the day of the wedding I know my cousin did. Second, what are your girls looking for? Maybe we can make a shiduch here.
I have seen that while most parents have their children’s best in mind, not all parents know their children. Parents who are looking at “learners” when the girl is not. Or parents telling the shadchan that the boys is only going to learn for a year when the boy wants to learn loooooong term. It does’t help anyone and wastes everyone’s time.
sorry, but we are not going to allow the question to be answered nor will we pass information from one person to another. YW Moderator-72