I know how u feel..the world is COLD in general these days…
well to start…pick one mizva ,that u know you will keep, and make sure you do it…
then there is one chessed a day..for no good reason, do something good for someone, call a friend u know who needs it..offer a ride even though you are not going in that direction(if u drive that is)…the ideas are endless..HATZLACHA RABBA.. and A GITT GEBENCHD YUHR!