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volvie:
I already stated I got a Psak. You, as I also stated, may have a different Psak. ASK YOUR RAV! There is the Din of “Asay Shabbatcha Chol V’al Yitztarech Lebriyos”, but I do not ask my Rav to explain his Psakim to me.
As far as the last point, it is a good one, but there is no reason to apply it to tuition costs (as it’s a Chov vs. a personal use, which then and only then are you allowed to pay for extras IF they are used to it. However, actual Tzedaka still comes before extras, which brings me to the final point..).
And once more, if people had infinite sums to use, then these would be paid as well (and I would not be here or working). It’s when there are finite funds then Halacha comes into play; And those who follow halacha (what you might call “frum people”) get before those who don’t (in general). This is not so simple (who decides what Avairos make someone not “Frum”), but for a different thread.