the whole mentality is so ridiculous, i can’t understand it. i plan to iyH have the cheapest wedding possible, because i will never be able to enjoy my wedding knowing that my parents are having such financial difficulties because of it. what happened to people not thinking of themselves first, but thinking of their parents who have raised them and brought them to this point, and having hakaros hatov towards them? you can have a beautiful beautiful wedding and not have to go completely crazy w the money aspect.
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