azolis: “if your mother is smart, she’s providing pictures behind your back.” My mother is very smart and therfore she values her daughter’s opinion and feelings. My mother does not see it to be necessary to go behind her 20 year old daughter’s back. I have an open relationship with my mother which does not include her going behind my back.
“those who hold back on offering pictures will lose” none of my sisters gave in pictures and Baruch Hashem they are happily married with children so……….. I think the right one will come along in the right time even if I don’t give in my picture. Don’t think that I have anything to hide becaue I don’t Baruch Hashem. I just don’t think it is right.