BasYisroel2:
I was goin through an old post & saw ur post, I apologize for never getting back 2u.
To answer ur questions,
1) I find most of the time it’s the mother herself who takes a personal interest in the girls size.
read in bet. the lines. (my buddies dont care about sizes) if they’re slim they usually want a slimish girl.
Guys dont even comprehend womens sizes anyhow!
2) The picture thing, should go both ways, especially the way I figure it, is
when a guy is good looking the mother would request a pic to see if the girl, is too.
I don’t know why a guy who isn’t handsome would request a pic from a girl unless
he wants to be fair & make sure she’s as unhandsome as he is.
I don’t think it’s proper, or intelligent to judge by a pic,
for instance * I am very handsome, just not very photogenic.
Also, the camera adds at least ten pounds!
Did I mention I’m very humble.
Seriously though, if anyone party receives a request for a pic they have a right
to demand a pic from the other party as well & should not forward their pic in advance.