oomis1105: I agree “to get good counseling both from a Rov AND a therapist”
mazca: as haifagirl said, depends if their civil to one another,
wen u asked ur Q i wasn’t thinking about shidduchim I was just thinking
in terms of it being healthier for the children not to be raised in a broken home,
but children are very perceptive, & can tell phoney acts.
If the parents are cussin & throwing dishes at each other,
the heck with shidduchim, their kids prob wont be able to STAY married
growing up in such a home, & just end it a.s.a.p. (if it cannot b saved.)