How do you know when it is getting serious?
Does the shadchan say anything?
I know this is going to sound mean, Metziut, but I *really* don’t intend it to be, so please keep that in mind when you read the next line.
If you cannot tell (without the shadchan’s help) that a relationship is getting serious, then perhaps you are not ready for marriage. Only *you* can decide when a relationship is “getting serious.” No one else could (or should) be making that decision for you.
The Wolf