Getting Serious
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October 21, 2009 1:32 am at 1:32 am #590632MetziutMember
How do you know when it is getting serious?
Does the shadchan say anything?
October 21, 2009 2:22 am at 2:22 am #663180JosephParticipant“How do you know when it is getting serious?”
When you start hearing “Mazal Tov!”
October 21, 2009 2:34 am at 2:34 am #663181MetziutMemberAssuming one is still dating.
October 21, 2009 3:25 pm at 3:25 pm #663182WolfishMusingsParticipantHow do you know when it is getting serious?
Does the shadchan say anything?
I know this is going to sound mean, Metziut, but I *really* don’t intend it to be, so please keep that in mind when you read the next line.
If you cannot tell (without the shadchan’s help) that a relationship is getting serious, then perhaps you are not ready for marriage. Only *you* can decide when a relationship is “getting serious.” No one else could (or should) be making that decision for you.
The Wolf
October 21, 2009 3:35 pm at 3:35 pm #663183Dr. PepperParticipantThis is different for those in different circles, but I felt it was getting serious when we dropped the shadchan.
October 21, 2009 5:05 pm at 5:05 pm #663184neatfreakMemberI felt it was getting serious after the fourth date- when i pretty much knew that barring any major discoveries he was the one. how i knew he was the one i cannot completely say- i just knew that he was right.
October 21, 2009 5:20 pm at 5:20 pm #663185truthsharerMemberWhen the shadchan asks you your full name so she can write the wedding invitations.
October 21, 2009 5:24 pm at 5:24 pm #663186ronrsrMemberI knew it was serious when I found myself under a huppah, smashing a glass with my right foot.
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