Thanks Squek:
My proposal with paying shadchanim has nothing to do with age gap at all simply because what goes on is just not right.
Artchill: I have no doubt that you are a expert in halacha however numerous Roshei Yeshiva and Rabbonim who are familiar with the abuse shadcahnim suffered have encouraged changing the system. It’s really not my issue and I have no intention of pushing this agenda……..