Skates: I totally know what you mean but when people tell me “I have a great shidduch for u!” I stop them IMMEDIATELY and say “don’t tell it to me, tell it to a shadchan, ect…” And that saves a lot of unnecessary talk! Try it next time, it helps!
Melechelmaklo: That doesn’t make the situation better just cuz they ‘realized’ their not for each other! Why tell it to the boy or girl?? To make them get their hopes up to be later on let down?? Its so insensitive!!