c.s.; I’m sorry to hear that you’re only dating weirdos, though I can tell you
that you are getting at least 40% of the market redt to you. 40% are weird!
I am embarrassed to say I was lol, at your venting, for it reminded be back in the
good old days when I was dating, although they weren’t all weirdos,
most of them were totally not my type. It was verryyy frustrating, and my parents
were pressuring me to just take any girl, despite that they were not what I was looking for.
Do not give in, wait till you find that normal boy that your looking for.
I do agree that some boys and girls may come off as weird the first time around,
being nervous, uncomfortable etc.. but usually they warm up to you,
or they stay weird, beware of the latter.
So I wish you hatzlocha, parents many times lose themselves in their personal
struggles comparing themselves with friend and family that have already
married off and can unintentionally come off as being hurtful, insensitive,
and unreasonable, their human too! Don’t be direspectful, just understand
their frustrations, and don’t get pressured to take a boy that you are not happy with.
Sometime you have to go through some odd stuff, till you get to the right stuff.
Like shopping. only longer and more expensive. with an unforgiving return policy.
may we never know of that! 😉