Reply To: Where are all the Boys?

ok, this shidduch world debate should really be on the topic (already created on YW) called “shidduch world” This thread was not created in support of or against shidduch world….Lets not go off topic, it was created with one question:

Why do guys only go to shaddchanim in their 30’s and 40’s and not their 20’s? Girls in their 20’s go to shaddchanim the shadchanim only have a one or two guys to give them. These shadchanim recycle those one or two poor guys to all the girls on their list whether or not it seems like a good match (no wonder the guys can’t stand shadchanim!)If more guys would go to shaddchanim this problem would be solved. I know shidduch world and other internet dating sites might be one solution but I have a feeling that the same guys who don’t go to shaddchanim will not go online either.