Reply To: Where are all the Boys?

Yes, the good guys get married right away. Someone once told me that their are more good girls out there than there are good boys (a ratio of 10:1). Therefore, there are not enough good guys to match the good girls. So yes, there are the same “number” of girls and boys out there. So what happens to the guys once they get older and are not married? well, they become less frum, drink alcohol, do drugs, become lax in halacha with girls, become lax in kosher…they move out of their parents home and blend into the western world. And there you go, one more jewish male neshama lost and one more jewish female neshama who will not get married because her bashert decided to go off the derech….