Torah is central to a woman’s life too. Every action has to be weighed through the prism of, is this bringing kiddush Hashem or not.
A person’s goal is to be a ben Torah (which means living a life of Torah, not necessarily full time learning) and that the shem Shamayim should be misahev al yado.
Circumstances will lead a man to have to assume the responsibilities of life, and when that happens he should do so proudly and b’simcha.
Did I cover everything?