Ain Hochi Nami! I’m surprised and shocked that an individual aged 25 or older would still let their parents do the work that they themselves are suppose to be doing
to find their match. Besides the point that parents try to live vicariously through
thier children and are many times the very reason that their children aren’t
able to find their basherteh, as theses parents meddle into personal physical
traits of the girl or boy or family, which is not up to them to decide,
thus weeding out possible matches which the parents dont like,
but the boy or girl would like.
This problem happens primarily under the circumstances that the OP points out.
So, in an extended version of your original post, I totally agree.
(Perhaps you should consider bumping up the age to 23 to promote some maturity.)